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amorousTopic: Flickr
I've decded to start posting interesting stuff from Flickr on my blog. I sometimes write junk on Flickr that I usually would have blogged, but I can't share it with the Blogging World because it's all on security protected private Flickr pages. So, we had an interesting chat recently where someone asked:
"Do you think str8 dudes mind if guys watch them or look at them?"
and that got a variety of replies. The most interesting of which was OF COURSE mine, which I've copied for your reading pleasure here, along with one that I mentioned:
Pacey369 said: "MOST males like to be looked at if they know how hot tehy are. We are vain creatures- to say the least. You don't have to always flaunt it, but any guy that doesn't like to be looked at is either insecure, or have some other type of problem."
Noz said: "It's hard to generalise but I'd agree with Pacey369 that basically, men like to be looked at by anyone who might find them attractive. In my experience out in straight clubs, I've had men - especially younger more insecure ones - be very interested to know if I find them attractive, because they feel it validates them and gives a more "honest" answer then they could ever get from a woman.
One once asked me if I fancied him, and I told him that unfortunately he wasn't really my type and he was visibily upset. He didn't fancy a man but he really liked the idea of being fancied, regardless. I think also, with women, there's a lot of distrust from straight men. i.e., they feel that women may fancy their social status, or their clothes, or their money or their connections, or their job, or whatever isn't really "them". With men, they know we're after their ass and their tongue and their cock and don't really care what kind of car they drive, and as long as they don't look like slobs, our main priority with their clothing is that they remove it.
This kind of honesty and pure sexual interest attracts straight men to our opinions, if not our bodies."
